Practice Self-love And You Will Be Loved The Way You Want It

Making the mistake of judging your own worth by how much you are loved by others can often lead to great disappointment.

This means that if you have received false love or intimacy based on pain and manipulation, then you will end up believing that you do not deserve to be loved.

In fact, it is fun to teach children where to find the capitals of the world, but we do not teach them how to practice self-love.

In other words, we do not teach them to see themselves as the wonderful beings they are, and that they deserve better than they think they deserve.

Therefore, today’s article will be on the topic of self-love. We will talk about how to practice self-love often, and how to learn the same strategies for children.

Love yourself, because no one deserves as much attention in your life as you do

Society often teaches us a value that can become a double-edged sword: self-love. Loving the reflection in the mirror can sometimes be seen as egocentric.

They tell us that we must be grateful, to let people leave the room before we enter, to help your neighbor, to give everything for those we love…

It is true that they are noble acts that we should not stop practicing. But, we should also learn what integrity, self-love and self-confidence  are.

Do not judge yourself by what you get

Imagine that a child was bullied at school. So imagine that this child is always at home alone. She does not get the necessary love and attention from her parents.

Now imagine the same child as an adult. Think of her efforts to maintain happy emotional, mature, and enriching relationships. If she does not achieve this, she will most likely end up believing that she is a person who does not deserve to be loved.

Although this may seem cruel, many have had such experiences.

• We should not judge our value by what we receive.
• Love yourself every day as you deserve, and do not wait for others to give you what you are waiting for.
• Do not try to get constant approval for your actions and thoughts. You are your own judge. That’s right, you are the person who must give life, support and effort in every action you decide to do.
• If your childhood and adolescence were painful periods in your life, try to separate the past from the present. You already know what it’s like to grow up without good and stable love, so leave it at that.
• Heal your wounds by practicing self-love. Pamper yourself and protect yourself from what can hurt you, but also go out into new paths that lead to the hope of getting better every day.

Attract what you deserve.

You deserve to be loved much more than what some people give you

Sometimes we simply do not give up on people. Even though we are not exactly happy in a relationship, we may say to ourselves, “This is life. I’m not going to find anything better. This is better than being alone. ”

• Whether we like it or not, emotional stagnation clings to this subtle and implicit disorder that undermines our self-esteem.

Unfortunately, we get used to this emptiness, remorse, self-loathing and unhappiness. This is dangerous because we lose everything if we lose faith that things can get better.

You deserve much more than what someone gives you. Believe it or not, it’s because some people do not know how to love others and do not understand what reciprocity is, which are the two most important things in credible love.

This type of person does not worry about making an effort to bring smiles and not tears in the relationship.

• You should not get involved in this type of relationship. Love should bring you happiness and not sorrow. Be brave and leave the pain you have experienced so that you can regain your integrity.
• Integrity means finding a link between what we deserve, what we feel and what we do in our daily lives. In other words, there is a balance between mind, heart and action.
• Love yourself the way you deserve to be loved, even if you have to spend some time alone on it. This opportunity will always be better than living with illegitimate friends who hurt us.

You are a wonderful person who deserves the best in life. Fight for this, fight for yourself and fight for those you love.